INFJ / Sagittarius
Who is an Advocate (INFJ)?
Advocates are individuals with the Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be gentle, complex and intuitive people who enjoy expressing themselves both artistically and creatively. Highly observant of their surroundings, advocates are extremely skillful at reading and understanding other people.
Advocate/Sagittarius don't like to be stuck in a routine that is boring and repetitive. They curiosity about all things drives them to have an adventurous lifestyle that allows them to move around and indulge in their love for questioning the world, dreaming about its mysteries and experiencing all the best pleasures it has to offer. They tend to be highly intelligent and need lots of mental stimulation to keep themselves motivated and happy. Their compassionate nature means that this can be something that they are good at teaching others to enjoy. They’re as genuinely warm as they are complex. They hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. They are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive them into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress.
They have a deep desire for authenticity and sincerity in everything they do – from their daily activities to their relationships. As a result, people with this personality combo rarely settle for friendships of convenience. Rather than rely on superficial interactions with the people they see every day at work or school, they generally prefer to have a close circle of confidants. They tend to light up around friends who share their passions, interests, and beliefs. Few things give these people more pleasure than connecting with others over discussions about meaningful ideas and philosophies. Once Advocate/Sagittarius know they can trust someone completely, they find it incredibly fulfilling to share their innermost thoughts, ideas, and feelings with them.
To recognize their love for you, be conscious of the time that they are setting aside to spend with you – this is their main method of expressing devotion. If they flatter or compliment you, take their words at face value – they have likely been thought out carefully and are meant sincerely. Lastly, accept and reciprocate their acts of physical affection! This type isn’t open to hugs or touches from just anyone, so if they’re being affectionate with you, it’s their way of saying ‘I love you.’ They will often fall in love with the idea of a person. They are attracted to vibrancy. They’re also very independent, and often prone to wandering. They get bored easily. They are always looking for a new high, a new thrill, a new adventure. They are constantly seeking out the next great thing. An Advocate/ Sagittarius is looking for someone to have a good time with. They want to be able to experience the world without having to worry about the consequences of their actions. They don’t want to be tied down. They need someone who doesn’t take life too seriously. Someone to enjoy life with.
Although they have outstanding instincts for the most part, sometimes their intuition betrays them when they are dealing with others. When something is bothering them, they will often withdraw into the safety of their own heads rather than speaking openly about what they are feeling. To improve their communication habits, they should go out of their way to share their feelings—both good and bad—with others regardless of how uncomfortable it makes them feel to do so.