ENTJ / Aquarius
Who is a Commander (ENTJ)?
Commanders are individuals with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Judging personality traits. They tend to be charismatic, direct, and analytical people who prefer to focus on the bigger picture. Being natural born leaders, commanders are often perceived as assertive and uninhibited people who won't hesitate expressing their opinion.
These people tend to be friendly and generous, though later you may find that they are quite guarded and may choose to keep some emotional distance. Alongside this, they are quite subversive and rebellious - filled with many quirks that make them memorable characters. They make decisions quickly, and are quick to verbalize their opinions and decisions to the rest of the world. They have many gifts which make it possible for them to have a great deal of personal power, if they don't forget to remain balanced in their lives. They are assertive, innovative, long-range thinkers with an excellent ability to translate theories and possibilities into solid plans of action. These individuals frequently have very strong sentimental streaks. Often these sentiments are very powerful to them, although they will likely hide it from general knowledge, believing the feelings to be a weakness.
“Intelligence,” to them, means the ability to formulate the most unpopular opinion possible. If they were white sheep, they’d dye their wool black just to prove a point. In fact, they are world-builders. An entire universe exists in their heads, and this universe adheres to its own set of logic that doesn’t map onto reality. They are not liars. They are utopians. They are not cold. They are rational. To them, emotions are just holes in their idealistic vessels. Why succumb to sensitivity when there is so much knowledge to acquire, so many problems to be solved, worlds to invent? They’re leaders, motivated to organize change. They are quick to see inefficiency and conceptualize new solutions, and enjoy developing long-range plans to accomplish their vision. They excel at logical reasoning and are usually articulate and quick-witted. They like bringing order to the world around them. When there are flaws in a system, they see them, and enjoy the process of discovering and implementing a better way.
They are attracted to intelligence. Inspiration is a romantic spark for them. Sharing the same sense of humor is the same thing as a connection. They aren’t necessarily attracted to people who share their interests, because there is a part of them that hates their interests, but they are drawn to people with niche pursuits that they don’t fully understand. Commander/Aquarians are addicted to figuring people out. They want to know about you. Not your feelings or your childhood. Not your psychological and emotional makeup, but the facts you know, the interesting experiences you’ve had, the opinions you’ve developed. They use this information to depict you as an idealized caricature that they can hang in the heart-shaped museum of all their past and present relationships. They’re strong, responsible and committed partners who like to take charge. Having a strong desire to succeed, they will seek their personal growth together with their partners.
Their desire to be the center of attention can sometimes mean that when ignored, they can be deeply hurt. In an effort to once again be noticed, their peculiarity may be even more noticeable. Sometimes, they seem almost to enjoy the confusion they cause with their peculiar observations. Their eccentricity can mean that their behavior sometimes borders on the bizarre - and they enjoy the shock that comes with expressing them. Sometimes this may be entertaining, but it is not always productive.