ENTJ / Aries
Who is a Commander (ENTJ)?
Commanders are individuals with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Judging personality traits. They tend to be charismatic, direct, and analytical people who prefer to focus on the bigger picture. Being natural born leaders, commanders are often perceived as assertive and uninhibited people who won't hesitate expressing their opinion.
Commander/Aries tend to have high energy and a thirst for life, leading them to seek out challenging experiences that can push them to new limits. A typical Commander/Aries is very driven and curious, and has a strong sense of justice. They tend to be very ambitious and thrive in a competitive environment, whether it’s intellectual or physical in nature. They are generally quite optimistic people, and feel very comfortable in leadership roles. These people often have a very positive attitude and are less inclined to feel pity for themselves than some other signs. At times they can be quite hot headed, and given their propensity to seek out justice, they can often find themselves in a lot of heated arguments. Having a one track mind, they also are very unlikely to back down from those arguments - they like to be right and have the last word — regardless of whether they are actually right or not. If harnessed properly, the fire that burns inside them is something that will fuel their actions, and will push them to become defenders for both themselves and others.
They are analytical and objective, and like bringing order to the world around them. When there are flaws in a system, they see them, and enjoy the process of discovering and implementing a better way. They are assertive and enjoy taking charge; they see their role as that of leader and manager, organizing people and processes to achieve their goals. They are natural born leaders. They live in a world of possibilities where they see all sorts challenges to be surmounted, and they want to be the ones responsible for surmounting them. They have a drive for leadership, which is well-served by their quickness to grasp complexities, their ability to absorb a large amount of impersonal information, and their quick and decisive judgments. They are "take charge" people.
They are strong, responsible and committed partners who like to take charge. They do it in their workplace and likewise, display the same desire for command and responsibility in a love relationship. Having a strong desire to succeed, they will seek their personal growth together with their partners. They want to call the shots as their tendency is toward command and taking charge. They want to make the decisions – which house to buy, how to design the interior of the rooms, how to plan their finances. This is a great trait because partners who are more easy-going can relax and allow them to make the decisions for them. However, if they’re too imposing, they might end up stifling their partners or cause their partners to give up even having an opinion. After all, people who argue with a Commander/Aries rarely win. They can be very loving and intense partners, and definitely need others who share their passion for life. They are usually quick to fall in love, as well as quite direct with what their desires are. No guessing games are needed, which can be refreshing in the ambiguous age of tinder and ghosting. They love to pursue love, and go after what they want with the same drive that they bring to all areas of their lives. While they are great initiators, they are sometimes need a bit of encouragement to follow through - and this can usually be done with words of praise, so long as they ring true.