ESFJ / Aries
Who is a Consul (ESFJ)?
Consuls are individuals with the Extraverted, Sensing, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be friendly, supportive and empathetic people with great social skills. As genuine people persons, consuls are often described as natural caretakers who love to help others.
Consul/Aries are, for lack of a better word, popular. Bold and ambitious, they dive headfirst into even the most challenging situations. They are passionate, motivated, and confident leaders who build community with their cheerful disposition and relentless determination. Uncomplicated and direct in their approach, they often get frustrated by exhaustive details and unnecessary nuances. These people understand how to accomplish tasks better than most, and that is why the to-do lists they make are seldom left with any unchecked items. They are so conscientious and detail-oriented they can’t stomach the thought of leaving an important job or project only half-finished, and they would feel embarrassed if they gave anything less than their very best effort in each and every instance.
They will find themselves in leadership positions because they are naturals with people. They gravitate towards groups and often get “voted in” to higher roles. Consul/Aries are pioneers—they're the ones you call on to boldly go where none have gone before. Their fearlessness and courageousness make them the ideal people for trying new experiences, taking big risks, and breaking new ground. A Consul/Aries is full of optimism and unbridled hope, making them highly generous and eager to help those in need, just so they can put a smile on people's faces. They have strong perfectionist tendencies, to the point where they can be very hard on themselves. They want to be someone who is perfect for those around them, striving to always do everything right. This makes it hard for them to accept when they have made a mistake or that they have flaws at all. Seeing their own flaws makes them feel like they have failed their loved ones in some way, and so they can be in denial about these things.
Consul/Aries individuals are the playboys and playgirls. When in love they’re like a kid with a newfound toy. The women seduce while the men charm and dazzle, and both can sweep the object of their affection off his or her feet. They fall in love spontaneously and usually make the first move, but can also fall out of love just as quickly and move on. However they put their lover on a pedestal and will expect the same in return and they do have tendencies to become jealous fairly easily and have no problem making that clear to their lover. When they are sure that they love someone it isn’t something they can shake off, and is going to last for a long time. They become deeply connected to this person and think about them often.
Guardians of birthdays, holidays and celebrations, they are generous entertainers. They enjoy and joyfully observe traditions and are liberal in giving, especially where custom prescribes. Consul/ Aries are easily wounded. And when wounded, their emotions will not be contained. They can have quite the temper. While it should fizzle out quickly, they still need some time to come down from their outbursts. Steer clear until they do, or else you might find yourself the target of their rage. They by nature "wear their hearts on their sleeves," often exuding warmth, but not infrequently boiling over with the vexation of their souls. Some of them channel these vibrant emotions into moving dramatic performances on stage and screen.