ESFJ / Pisces
Who is a Consul (ESFJ)?
Consuls are individuals with the Extraverted, Sensing, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be friendly, supportive and empathetic people with great social skills. As genuine people persons, consuls are often described as natural caretakers who love to help others.
The Consul/Pisces people are, for lack of a better word, popular – which makes sense, given that it is also a very common personality type, making up twelve percent of the population. They enjoy supporting their friends and loved ones, organizing social gatherings and doing their best to make sure everyone is happy. They’re very friendly and often finds themselves in the company of many different kind of people. Generous, caring and extremely faithful they often create deep bonds with many friends. The Consul side of them might show tendencies towards having to feel superior to other people, but the Pisces part will usually even out this trait by being non judgmental and always forgiving and tolerant.
Consul /Pisces will base their moral compass on established traditions and laws, upholding authority and rules, rather than drawing their morality from philosophy or mysticism. It’s important for Consuls to remember though, that people come from many backgrounds and perspectives, and what may seem right to them isn’t always an absolute truth. They are always ready to help other people, especially if it will give them extra credit or earn them a round of applause. Not that they wouldn’t help otherwise, they just enjoy the attention, which can work as a great motivator for this personality. Consuls love to be of service, enjoying any role that allows them to participate in a meaningful way, so long as they know that they are valued and appreciated.
Although very flirty these people don’t do casual flings – they need to know that their partners will always be by their sides offering unwavering support, and marriage and family are the ultimate goal. Having an extremely romantic outlook on life they very often put their partner’s needs before their own. Deeply intuitive they can usually sense if something is wrong or feels off, even before it happens. They need to remember though, that asking if something’s wrong too often, can create problems rather than nipping tiny issues in the bud. To relax and let go is something they will have to practice throughout their lives, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. Consul/Pisces are often very organized in how their relationships develop, following established dating rules and traditions. They tend to be very affectionate and sensual, and overall great sexual partners since they love to find ways to make their partners happy. And as the two partners become more comfortable with each other, they are often open to experimenting and trying new things.
By and large, the Consul/Pisces personality type is a pleasant and sincere one. Their energy and social intelligence win them many acquaintances and friends, and their support and dedication keep those friendships close and strong. They are great at using their sensitivity to stay in tune with what motivates and drives their friends. While in their weaker moments, they can sometimes use these observations to manipulate others. But almost always use their powers for good, encouraging and inspiring others. With so much zest for life and company, dull moments are sure to be few and far between.
Worried about their social status
Afraid of conflict