ENFJ / Cancer
Who is a Protagonist (ENFJ)?
Protagonists are individuals with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be warm, persuasive and talkative people with great social skills. Being global learners, protagonists usually pay more attention to the bigger picture, rather than smaller details.
These people tend to twist themselves into knots to make people in their life feel comfortable and secure. Loyal to the core they will always show up for their friends and family. They are very expressive when they talk and also probably have a catch phrase they use way too much! Protagonist/Cancer will always let you know what they think, especially if they think what they have to say is for your own good. They are in tune with other people's feelings, often to the point that they ignore their own needs in order to please others. They’re also capable of cracking up their inner circle with their off beat or goofy sense of humor. This is the person you can rely on offering a shoulder to cry on and freshly baked cookies.
In the work place they do well in positions where they deal with people. They are naturals for the social committee. Their uncanny ability to understand people and say just what needs to be said to make them happy makes them naturals for counseling. They enjoy being the center of attention, and do very well in situations where they can inspire and lead others, such as teaching. At times they can become very wrapped up in other people's problems. They are altruistic and interested in helping others, which can sometimes come off as a bit overbearing. Despite this, they are usually very well liked and people appreciate their genuine concern and care.
The Protagonist/Cancer wears their hearts on their sleeve. They’re just bursting with so much love to give and they’ve likely dreamed of their fairytale ideal partner for as long as they can remember. Your happiness is critical to your Protagonist/Cancer’s happiness. Remember that they may even put their own needs last in order to ensure that your needs are met. Let your them know how much you appreciate all the support and care that they offer and be willing to provide the same support in return – even if he or she struggles to ask for help. This person longs for a stable, nurturing relationship with a person who enjoys spending time at home, cooking a great meal and playing cards, rather nights out on the town.
Their sensitive side doesn’t come without it’s negatives. They can be overly emotional and moody and are quite likely to send a snappy text message before turning their phones off to brood away in peace. Quick to retreat into their own shell, where they need some time to recharge and rest, before turning their compassionate heart back on again. Protagonist/Cancer are charming, warm, gracious, creative and diverse individuals with richly developed insights into what makes other people tick. This special ability to see growth potential in others combined with a genuine drive to help people makes them truly valued individuals. They are fun to be with, and truly understand and love people. They are typically very straight-forward, honest and exude a lot of self-confidence, and have a great amount of ability to do many different things. They are generally bright, full of potential, energetic and fast-paced. They are usually good at anything which captures their interest.